There’s something profoundly important about trauma. Especially childhood trauma. And if we pay such a high price for it, it must be deeply meaningful. And the more painful the trauma, the more important what we gain from it.

Therefore, trauma ends the moment we’ve taken from it everything that was most important. And how do you know what you’ve taken? You simply stop bargaining with the Creator and stop holding Him back from sending you this.

But in reality, your soul chose this, since it’s happening to you. Rather, you need to ask another important question: WHAT FOR? What can I gain from this, what experience? But sometimes a person can’t do this on their own, because they’re inside the problem. This requires a specialist who will be outside the problem.

Psychologists conducted a study and found that every person who has achieved anything in life has experienced trauma. Trauma often acts as a driver. It can make a person great, but it can also plunge them to rock bottom. It requires its own compensation, and everyone compensates for it differently, depending on their engine and its capabilities. If you have a powerful engine, you become an “achiever”; if your engine is weak, you’re a victim.

But neither makes you human. Neither connects you with love and the Creator. And neither gives you peace. Because you’re always either trying to achieve something or always suffering from something.